Codependency Self AssessmentSerenity Vista2022-07-05T19:03:35+00:00 Codependency Self Assessment Do you ever wonder whether your concern for the alcoholic, addict or other loved one in your life warrants seeking help for yourself? Here is your own personal self assessment survey:1. Do you worry about your loved one, such as about their drinking or other unhealthy behavior?* Yes No 2. Do you have money problems because of someone else?* Yes No 3. Do you tell lies to cover up for someone else?* Yes No 4. Do you feel that if this person cared about you, he or she would stop this destructive behavior?* Yes No 5. Do you blame this person?* Yes No 6. Are plans frequently upset or canceled or meals delayed because of this person?* Yes No 7. Do you make threats, such as, “If you don't stop this behavior I'll leave you."* Yes No 8. Do you secretly try to prove that he or she has been drinking or using by smelling their breath or searching their things?* Yes No 9. Are you afraid to upset him/her for fear it will set off the drinking, using, or other unhealthy behavior pattern?* Yes No 10. Have you been hurt or embarrassed by this person?* Yes No 11. Are holidays and gatherings spoiled because of him/her?* Yes No 12. Have you considered calling the police for help in fear of abuse?* Yes No 13. Do you search for hidden alcohol or drugs or food, etc?* Yes No 14. Do you ever ride in a car with a driver who has been drinking, using, or acting violently?* Yes No 15. Have you refused social invitations out of fear or anxiety?* Yes No 16. Do you feel like a failure because you can't control the person?* Yes No 17. Do you think your other problems would be solved with the person's sobriety?* Yes No 18. Do you ever threaten to hurt yourself to scare this person?* Yes No 19. Do you feel angry, confused, or depressed most of the time?* Yes No 20. Do you feel there is no one who understands your problems?* Yes No Congratulations on completing the twenty questions. Answering yes to 5 or more of these questions indicates that codependency has become a significant problem in your life. You deserve help. If you would like information on a 45 day recovery program at Serenity Vista for yourself, please complete the below and/or contact us at info@serenityvista.com. Thank you. Name* First (Last name optional) Email* Would you like information on a 45 day recovery program for yourself at Serenity Vista?*CaptchaProvide your consent* I agree to this website's Privacy Policy.